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Good habit for kids
1. Sensation
2. Feelings
3. Verbalization
4. Action
5. Habit
Bacha jb peda hota he to us ko bara admi Banane me target ka Kiya roll he? Maa bap ka Kiya roll he?
Bacha jb peda hota he us ke pas kuch bhi nahi hota he us ke pass feelings bhi nahi hoti he. Us ke pas Sirf sensation hota he.
1. Sensation ki wajh se hota he.
Sawal ye peda hota he phir wo bacha rota kese he?
Jawab ye he ke wo pain ki wajh se rota he sensation hota he. Sence ki wajh se rota he. Feelings ki wajh se nahi rota he wo sense ki wajhse to ro Raha hota he. Kuch arse ke bad ye feelings convert hoti he.
2. Feelings kiya hota he?
Feelings ye hota he acha Lagna ya bura Lagna. Bache ke pass sirf sensation hota us ke pas feelings nahi hoti he.
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Sensation ko feelings me convert karne ka tool.
Sensation ko feelings I convert karne ka tool MAA hoti he. Bacha shuroo me jo kuch bhi dekh Raha hota he wo us ko Sirf adopt kar Raha hota he. Usko nahi pata ke acha he ya burA he. Wo Sirf usko record kr Raha hota he. Bache ke passes reasoning nahi hoti. Us ke pass problem solution nahi hoti. Bache ke pass conscious mind nahi hota he shuroo ke ander. Us ke pass subconscious mind hotahe. Bacha jb is Dunia me as he wo sirf1 recording machin hota he. Me agr Gana share ge to Gana record Hoga. Recorder ye to nahi kahta ke ye Gandi bat he. Agr ap us me tilawat record Karen ge to tilawat record hogi. Parlando ki awaz bharna chahe to wo record hojae ga. Bache ke ird gird Jo kuch bhi ho Raha he wo us ko record karate. Record ye nahi ho Raha he ke ye acha he ya ye bura he bs record ho Raha he. Pahle bache me sensation hota he us k bad feelings hoti he. Us ke bad Jo cheez bache me develop hoti he. Wo ye he.
3. Teesre no pr bache me verbalization hoti he.
Us ko wo koi Nam data he. Mama muje ye chaheye. Mama mujhe acha lagta he. Verbalization ke bad ata he.
4. Action
Ab wo kuch Karta he. Us ke krne ka daromadar is bat per he ke ap ne us me software kiya bhara he.
Ager for unke ghar me koi kisi ko "Tu" keh kr nahi bulata. Jese dada abu ghr ki maza ko kehta he bitiya ap mere pass tashrerf late. Yea jese agr ghar ka koi bacha he uska name "Shabbir" he usko wo is tarh bullate he. Shabbir Sahab ap aaeye. Or maa ye kehti he Shabbir Sahab Bahr gae he wo ae to hm bat karte he. To ye bache ke software me ye bat aati he ke agr kisi ko bulana ho to JAMA ke seeghe se bullate he. Lihaza jab pehle dafa lafz bolne ke ability peda hogi. To uska record usko peeche se software batae ga ke bar ko is tarh se bullate he. To wo milazim ko kahe ga Shabbir Sahab ap aagae he. Jb action per persistent hota he usko hum kahte he.
5. Habit
Farz kare agr koi bara aadmi mere pass Aaker shout kare ke ap ne ye kiya kiya he. Ager mere habit me he reacts karne ki to me bhi shor machana shuru krdon gi. Mujhe koi shoq nahi he apni beizati ki. Mujhe yaha nahi rehna. Agr farz kare mere software me react Karna nahi balke ye he agr koi bara admi ease kahe to usko jawab nahi Dena balke tahamul ke sath usko jawab de. Kahe ke mujh se ghalti hogae he. Thori der hogae thi. Is wajh se aesa Hua. Sorry, ab aesa nahi Hoga. Me Abhi isko think kar deti hon. Ab mujhe pehle wala kam Karna he ya dosre wala kam kena he. Is ka taluq is bat se nahi ke bara aadmi is tarh ka behave kr Raha he? Q ke us ne to aakr shout kiya tha. Ye ap ne kesa behave krna he? Ye depend on Karta he ke jab me peda Hui thi to mere ander kiya software input Hua tha.
Bacho ki tarbiat
Bacho ki Jo tarbiat ho rahi hoti he. Is tarbiat ka amal jis me Hamara continuous brain develop ho Raha hota he wo 7 saal he? Kuch logo ka us se pehle bhi hota he. Kuch logo ka us ke bad bhi hota he. Magr agreed time yehi 7 saal he. Lihaza 7 saal tak bacha apni habits mukamal kr leta he.
Sawal ye peda hota he ke 7 saal ke bad habits change hoti he ya nahi?
Jawab ye he ke 7 sal ke bad habits change to hoti he lekin ye bohat he mushkil kam he. Misaal ke tor per ap ke mobile me jo record he wo change ho skta he ya nahi. Han ye change to ho skta he lekin ye mushkil kam he. Q ke us me time lagta he. 7 saal tak habit brain develop ho jata he. Lihaza ap ka pattern life develops ho jata he. Jo missing link reh Gaya tha us ko hm mukamal kr lete he. Lihaza us Doran me Jo bacho ki tarbiat ke liye Jo San se zabardest cheez he Jo un ki habit ko positively develop kar rahi hoti he. Hame ye lagta he wo he "NASIHAT"
Walden ka ye kehna he jitna hum bache ko naseehat Karen ge utna he bacho ki habit develop hogi. Or ye can se bari bhakti he.
"Our children don't do what we ask them to do"
Bache wo nahi karte Jo ham kehte hen.
Our children do what we do.
Bacho ki tarbiat ke liye sb se powerful tool naseehat nahi he. Balke sb se powerful tool "ROLL MODEL" he.
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