Bacho ka mobile kese churaen?
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Ap ko pata he mobile bacho ke liye achi chiz nahi he. Lekin bacho kiya pata ke ye hamare liye achi cheez nahi he. Ap ka bacha 5,6 ghante youn hi mobile nilkal leta he. Ab Ap chahte he. Ache wale Walden chahte he ab un ka ander Jaga he or wo chahte he. Hamara bacha mobile na dekhe. Ye to bilkul he ghalt ho Raha he. Us waqt ye bat zehn me nahi thi jb mobile shuroo me bache ke hath me diya tha. K bache ko mobile ki aadet par jae gi.
Bacha ka peda hona
Bacha peda hote he us ke hath me mobile thama diya tha. Or bacha kese us se door ho. Us ko pata he me jab peda honga. Mere 7 selfi khinchi jae gi. Abi aankh bhi Sahi tarh nahi khula or 50 logs aaker mere 7 selfie len ge. Or us ki tasweere social media pr upload ho rahi he. Or phir jis ne aankh he is hall me kholi ho to wo mobile se kese door reh skta he. Ye sirf PAKISTAN ke logo ka he mas'ala nahi he balke ye poori Duniya ke logo ka mas'ala he.
2 ya 3 saal ka Bacharach
Ager koi bacha 2 ya 3 saal ka bacha he to us se mobile churana qadre aasan he. Wo is tarh ke hm bache se cheen kr mobile lele. Ab bacha ro-ro ker ap ko blackmail kr Raha hota he. Ye ap per depend kerta he ke ap us ki blackmailing me aa jati ho. Ager ap daily is tarh karenge. 10, 15 din tak to musalsal to bacha ki ye aadat nikl jati he. Lekin hm kiya karte he 1 din cheen Liya 2sre din de diya, phir 3sre din le Liya phir 4 din de diye 5 minutes k liye. To ye new patterns brain me develop nahi hote he. Ye to hogae chote bache. Ab ham bare bacho ka kiya kare. 4, 5, 6, 7, even 12 saal ke bacho ke liye kiya kare. Wo mobile game chorne ko tayar he nahi he.
Walden ke pass 1 he harba hota he. Maar diya, peet diya, Jaha jin countries me ye hoti he. Pakistan me ye hoti he. European countries me1 ye maar peet nahi hoti he. Police aati he wo pakr ker le jati he.
Aesi soorat me ap kiya kar skte hen? Ke jab bhi ap mobile churrana chahte he. Me Walden se poochta hon. Kitne ghante ap bache ko mobile dena chahte he? To Walden jawab dete he, bache bilkul bhi mobile na dekhe. Ab ye to bilkul he ghalt he, ke pehle 10,12 ghante ke liye mobile de diya ke wo bacha video games, khelta Raha. Ab Walden keh rahe hen bacha Mobil bilkul na dekhe.
1. Pehli bat to extreme per khele. Bache ko 10, 12 ghante ke liye mobile de diya ke wo extreme per khele. Us ko aadat Lagi Hui he. An keh rahe he wo bilkul bhi na khele.
Aese kese mumkin ho skta he. Technology ka dor he. Phir Walden kehte hen Chalo 1, 2 ghant khele. Us ke baad kiya kare bacha. Us ka koi plane nahi hota he ap ke pass.
Let's suppose
Let's suppose 5 ghanta bacha mobile games khelta he, Walden kehte he bacha 2 ghante khele. Ager un se poocha jae phir baki ke 3 ghante bache kiya kare. To us ka AlterNet ye date hen ke 3 ghante bacha parhai kare. Ye boht he ghalt bat he ke mobile ya koi or entertains ke against me Walden parhai ko lekr aate he. Yehi wajh he ke bacha parhai se sb se pehle bhagta he.
Q?
Kiun k jo bhi cheez ap ke interest ke aarre aae gi. Ap sb se pehle us cheez ko hatae ge. To parhai ka mobile se koi connection nahi.
Parhai is something else. Ager ap bache ka mobile churana chahte he, ager ap bache ka entertain churana chahte he. To us ka AlterNet bhi entertain me se hona chaheye.
Let's suppose ager ap bache ko kehte he mobile game 2 ghante khele. Agr bacha mobile me cricket khelta he, ya football game khelta he. To ap, us ko kahe ke wo 3 ghante physically cricket khele ya football game khele. Ya koi or physically koi or game khele, jo us ko acha lagta ho.
Us se hoga kiya?
Us se ye hoga koi bhi aadat 1 dam se nahi chut'ti he. Ap ko us ke jo pattern brain me ban chuke hote he. Us ko aahista aahista tabdeel Karna hoga.
Ager kisi bache ko movie, dekhne ka bara shoq he, or me us ko Kaho ke ap Kitab parho. To kaha movie kaha Kitab. Ager me Kitab ke badle bache ko Kaho ke ap movie ke badle Song suno, to wo us ke liye aasan hoga. Aesa shift krna us ke liye aasan hoga. Bache ko mobile ki aadat churane ke liye ap us ko pehle alternate de. Ager ap ne
Bache ko kaha ke ap 2 ghante mobile dekhe us ke bad mobile ko rakh de. Ager bacha bilfarz aesa karta bhi he. To us ke bad kiya kare. Ab maa baap ke pas bhi koi option nahi he. Bacha kahe ga is se behter he. Mobile dekh lon. Ap aadat churane ke bad ap us ko koi action plane de. Jis ke is bad wo Khali na bethe. Ager wo Khali bethe ga. To kahe ga is se to behter he, me mobile Chalo. Ager us ke pas action plane hoga. To wohi kam kare ga.
Wo cycle, chalae ga ya wo cricket khele ga. Ap Kaho he acha Hua wo burai se to bach Gaya. Us ki aankhe to kamzor nahi hora he. Us ka dimagh to kamzor nahi ho raba he. Kam se kam us ki aankhe to nahi thakegi. Wo mobile ki Duniya se to nikal Gaya he. Physical Activity ker Raha he. Us ka jism kam ker Raha he.
Jb is tarh wo Mahina 2 Mahina mobile se door hoga or wo musalsal 2sri activities krta rahe ga. To phir ab ap us ko keh skte hen ke beta ab boht cricket Khel li. Ab ap ne bohat cycle chala li. Ab ap thori se parhai bhi kar le. Khelne ka alg waqt muqarar kr le. Khelne ke waqt us ko bilkul bhi parhai ka na kahe. Beech me third sa waqfa hona zaroori he.
Bache ki help
Bache ki ap help kijiye. Wo is tarh ke pehle ap us ko mobile game se physical game ki tarf lae. Us ke bad apne 7 mile. Us ke bad us ko aahista se parhai per lagae. Is tarh bache ko pata bhi nahi lage ga?
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