Ziddi bacho ki tarbiat

Ziddi-bacho-ki-tarbiat

SB se pehle ye bat jan'na zaroori he ke zid kon ker Raha he maa baap zid kr rahe he ya bacha zid kar Raha he. Q k ye bat to tae he ke aj tak koi bacha aesa peda nahi Hua jo peda hote he soda mange ya peda hote he chips mange. Koi to he jis ne use ye sari Cheeze di he. Ab bacha or parents ke darmiyan 1 muqabla he dekhte he kon jeet'ta he. Q k agr bache ko agr 4 treeke ate hen or ap ko apni bat manwane k 3 treeke aate he phir bacha smajh jae ga q k ap ko km ata he.

Patience game.

Hota ye he ke ye total patience game he. Baz Dafa aesa hota he ke ap koi kam kar rahe ho or bache ne aakr wo cheez manga ap ne kaha nahi phir bache ne or ziyada zid Kiya apne patience Rakha to bacha ne or ziyada zid Kiya to ap ne wo cheer dedi bacha smejh Liya ke level aagaya. 

Bache ko smug me aagaya ke ye game dadi ke samne bhi hoskti he or ye game abu ke samne bhi ho skti he. Bacha smug jata he gala phaar kr bhi mil skta he. Ye 1 testing level he ke me kam cheekhon ga to is se kam nahi Hoga. Ye 1 testing me Hoga ke pehle ap 4 dafa mange ga to nahi milega or 6 dafa mange ga to mileage. Bache ko pata he ke mujhe zaroor mileage. Ap us mahol se bachna chah rahe ho. Jo bacha wo mahol create kr Raha he. Ye total patience game he.

Behavior analysis kerna

Ap Jo us ki zid se bachna chah rahe he us ko ap rewards ki shakl me de skte he. Uski saza ye he ke us ki jaza ko rook diya jae us lamhe ke liye. 

Trust build krna

Bache ka trust bhi build krna ho ke wo mukre he nahi. Bacche ka trust is tarh build krna Hoga ke agr bacha kehe ga ke mujhe ye chocolate chaheye to ap bache ko kahe ke ye chocolate pari he agr ap mere samne bethe or 10 tak count kare to ye chocolate ap ka Hoga ap bhale us ko utha kr lejae. Ap ne usko ye nahi kaha ke me chocolate lekr aonga balke ye Kaha ke ye chocolate pari he agr ap ye kam kro ge to ap ko milega. Us zid ko ap ne pose kraya he ke ap ko chocolate mile ga lekin ap ko ye behavior krna Hoga. To bacha bhi smug jae ga ke mujhe ye cheez mile gi lekin us ke liye mujhe ye kam krna Hoga. Is tarh ap ne us bache ko 10 seconds ke liye zid se hata diya. Ap ne Jo usko kam Diya he jis ko wo aasani ke 7 kr lega. 1 to ap ne usko bethna sikhaya 2sra us se ginti krwai.   Ap jese he usne ginti poori ki ap ne usko Kaha shabas ap ne ye kam poora Kiya ap ye chocolate le jae. Bacha bhi smajh jae ga ke munhe ye cheez Milegi lekin us ke 7 mujhe ye kam krna Hoga. Ab us ko barri cheez chaheye to us ke liye kam ko barhae. Jese ke ap sports khele or reading kare ye 3 kam kare tik lagae ab ap ye lejae . 

Reward ka Milna.

Agr ap ye kam Karo ge to ap ko ye milega har achievement pr apko reward mile ga. Agr ap ye kam nahi Karo ge to ap ko reward bzihi nahi milega. Reward Rakha huwa he pr milega nahi. Is tarh to janwaron ko bhi sikhaya jata he? Dolphin bhi nachne pr shuru hojati he q k usko bhi pata he agr me nacho ga to mujhe reward milega. Agr animals, bhi is tarh kam karte he to ye to phir bhi insan ka bacha he or wo bhi ap ka bacha he. 

Aetmad me lena.

Apne bache ko aetmad me bhi Lena Hoga wo is tarh ke ap us ko reward zaroor de aesa nahi ke ap us se WADA kare lekin us ko wo cheez na de. Us se bache ka ap pr aetmad khatm hojae ga.