- 10 aese tareeke jin se 2 saal ke bache ki tarbiyat krna
4. Shouting nahi karni
Bacha yehi samjhta he "this is the way" yehi wo 1 rasta he jis se ham apni bat manwa skte he. Bache ko ap jitni izat de ge, jitni ziyada respect Karen ge. 2years, 3years, 4years tak wo ap ko sood Samet wapis nil jae gi. Bacha jitna bara hota jae ga 4 saal 5 saal, wo itni he respect karne lage ga. Q ke ap ne data he wesa dala he us ke software me.
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Jab bacha ap ki bat nahi manta he to ap ko us per ghussa aata he, to ap us per cheekhte chillate ho. Phir jab ap us ki bat nahi mante ho to wo bhi ap per chekhta chilata he. Ap kehte ho bacha hamre hatho se Nikel Gaya he. Bhari mehfil me ap per bars part he, to ap kehte he ye to hamare upper tamancha he. Q na ho tamancha ap ne bachpan me us ki insult ki thi tab ap ne to ye nahi Socha ke us ki insult ho rahi he. Ab ap he se sekh ke ap he per formula apply ker Raha he. To ab ap ko samjh me aarha he, ke bacha hatho se nikl Gaya he.
G bacha ap ke hatho se nikl Gaya he q ke ap bhi to apne maa baap ke hatho se nikl gae the Kabhi to ap bhi wahi rool apna rahe he apne bacho pr.
5. Bache ko respect de
Bache ko respect de to wo bhi ap ko respect dega, Warna jo teenagers, me masail aaege wo parents ko rula dete hen. Jese bacha Hamare alfazo se hamare awaz se seekhta he, wese he wo Hamari body postures se seekhta he. Ager moonh Hamara phoolha rahe ga, expression hamare manfi honge. Angry man bane huehonge. Abba Kabhi moonh phehla Hua he, amma ka bhi moonh phelha Hua he. 0 se 2 saal ke bache Ye sare expiration note ker rahe hote hen. Ye bat 3,4,5 saal ke bacho ke 7 na kijiye.
Ager baap ko Gusa aaraha ho to wo gjar pr na aae, balke bahr dosto ke 7 bethe. Isi tarh agr maa ko bare bache pr ghusa aarha ho to kam se kam ye chote bache ke pas us wat na jae, q ke wo learn ker Raha hota he.
6. Bache ko mobile screen na dena
Bacha ap ko tang ker Raha ho or ap kisi kam me busy ho to us waqt bache ko mobile screen per laga dena. Wo bacha waha se bhi learn Karega, ke ye kiya cheez he screens me dance bhi ho hari he or music bhi Baj Raha he. Phir usko maa nahi chahiye hoti, phir us ko mobile chaheye hoti he. Mobile ki aadet ye 1 Nashe ki tarh ho jata he. Phir wo choot'at nahi he. 1 hota he chars ka na hota he, or 1 hota he sharab ka Nasha, or 1or hota he, sigrate ka Nasha, phir wo chot'ta nahi he.
Phir ye mobile, ye tablets, ye screen ye sare isi tarh ka kam krte he. Bache ke zehn ko khush ker dete hen. Phir bacha itni aasani se us ka nahi chorta. Phir jab bacha rota dhota he, phir ham thori der ke liye de dete hen. Jab bacha chup ho jata he, thori der bad humbache se mobile lete hen, bacha phir se Rona shuroo kr deta he phir hm bhi majboor ho jate he.
7. Bacha spiritually charge rahe.
Is ka Matlab he bacha mazhabi tor per bhi charge rahe.
Ap aesa kare k bache per Hissar kar le. Ayatul kursi ka ya Allah ta'ala ke Nam ka. Kuch log is bat ka billul BHI khayal nahi rakhte hen.
Ya jis waqt bacha beemer ho us waqt un ko khayal ata he. Or wo bache ko ayat ul kursi ka hisaar karte hen or kehte hen mere bache ko Nazar lag gae he. Or wo us waqt parh ker dam ker rahe hote he. ya or koi soorte parhte hen. Aesa daily basis pe Karna he. Bacha acha ho ya beemer ho ap ko is bat ka khayal rakhna he. Ap us ki spiritual connect charge lazmi rakhe.
2sra tariqa spiritually charge krne ka
Wo ye he ke ham bachpan se he bache ke kan ki tarf dheemi awaz me Quran Pak ki tilawat shuroo ker de. Hame q is bat ka hukam Deya Gaya he ke bacha peda hote he us ke kan me azan di jae. Isi liye hukam diya Gaya he ke pehle wo Allah ka Nam sune. Sirf 1 din ke liye nahi kaha Gaya ke bas 1 din azan deni he. Us ke bad nahi us ke bad jab bacha 10 12 saal ka ho us waqt bache ko kahe ke ab tum namaz parho. Allah ke sare namo me Barkat he ap din me kisi bho waqt 5 mint ke liye he sahi lekin bache ko qirat sunami he. Abhi wo bacha he, Abhi us ko ye nahi pata hota ke ye Kesi awaz he, jese hi wo kuch bara hoga us ko pata chale ga ke ye qira't he. Us ke lasha'oor me ye bata beth hogi ke ye Quran Pak ki tilawat he.
8. Neend ka khayal rakhna
Chote bacho ki neend ka behad khayal rakhna, khasoosan bilkul chote bache din me 12 se 14 ghante ke darmiyan neend kare.
Otherwise, hamare bache chirchire ho jate hen. Ham samajhte he ke hamare bache me koi mas'ala ho Gaya he. Hamare bache beemer rehne lage hen. Is ki yehi wajh he ke ham uski emotion ka khayal nahi rakh rahe hote he. Hm, un ki neend ka khayal nahi rakh rahe hote he. Hm, un ki diet ka khayal nahi rakh rahe hote he ke hm un ko healthy diet de.
9. Conditioning krna
1 ya 2 saalon me bache ki aadte ban rahi hoti he, us waqt boht jaldi aadte build hoti he, us waqt ap koi aesi koi kam na kijiye ke bache ke 7 jis ko wa apnae phir ap ko bad me pachtana pare.
Misaal ke tor per1 saal ke bache ko ap 1din bahr leker gae, phir 2 din bache ko bahr lekr gae, phir 3 din ap bache ko bahr leker gae. Is tarh bacha condition ho jae ga? Jis waqt bhi ap ki shakal dekhe ga bacha kahe ga mujhe bahr Jana he. Is tarh continuous ap ko bache ko Baher lekr Jana pare ga. Rat ko bhi uth ker beth jae ga or bole ga mujhe bahr le kr jao. Jo kam ap afford na kr sko, jo kam ap ko mushkil me dal de.us Doran ap bache ke ander aesi aadte na dale, ke zaberdasti us ko bahr ghumane phirane le jae. 0 se 2, 3 saal ke bacho me ye aadet na dale. Kabhi Kabhi le ker jae wo alg bat he. Lekin us ka pattern na bane.
10. Language seekhana
Bacha her cheez seekh Raha hota he, us liye bache ke samne achi language me bat krni chaheye. Is bat ka achi tarh khayal rakha jae ke bache ke samne well mannered or ache talafuz me bat krni chaheye. Hm me aksar ye dekha Gaya he. Ke Abhi bacha chota he or us k samne abusive language istimal krte he, us me wo slang languagebhi use ker rahe hote he, Or kehte hen us ko kiya samjh me aaega ke hm kya language istimal kar rahe he. Achi ya buri bat. Bache ko us waqt samjh me kuch nahi aega. Lekin us ke unconscious mind me wo bate add ho rahi hoti hen.
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