Bacho me achi aadten kese peda Karen? How to develop good habbits in children?

Jo jibillatan, aadetan kharab he us ko theek Karna boat he mushkil he. Us ko Nadine wale totke ka 1 he nam he inspiration or will power he. Luckily, good luck se bada koi insan jis se inspire hojae ya us ke ander will power itni ho ke wo apni jibilaton ke khilaf khada ho jae, is liye Duniya ka sab se bada jihad apne ap se ladna he. Apni lailmi ke sath lands he, apni bewaqufiyon ke sath ladna he, apni jahalat ke sath ladna he. 

 Bache ki tarbiyat

Ap bache ki Jo tarbiyat kar rahe hote hen. Asal me ap us ko aadten de rahe hote hen. Jitni achi aadten ap ne apne bachon ko di he, utna bacha apni Zindagi me kamiyab hoga. Aadton per kam ho to mustaqbil Insha ALLAH acha ho jae ga. Aadten achi nahi he, jitne chahe ache wassail de den, ujaad ke rakh se ga. Aadton se pata chalta he, aadmi kiya he. So aadten ap achi den.

Achi Aadton ka doosra naam he grooming

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Yahan sawal ye peda hota he, ke aadten kese di jaen?

Aadet ka sab se aasan tareeqa ye he ke jis bhi cheez me shabasi milti he, wo aahista aahista aadet me chali jati he. 

List banaen

Aj se ap 1 list banaen kin cheezon per ap bachon ko appreciate Karen ge or kin cheezon per ap criticize Karen ge? Ye ap ka mas'ala he. Ap ka criticism or apricizon both are tools. Ye do pane hen, jin se aadet banti he. 

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Ap misal le

Bacha jab ghar ata he wo bolta he abba mene do mukke mare he. Abba g bolte he 3 q nahi mare hen. 

Ye teachers ke sath common he is tarh teachers ke sath bhi aam hota he ager teacher maa ko kehta he ap ke bache ne ye ghalti ki he maa bolti he mere bache ne ye ghalti ki hi nahi he. Ghaltiyon per parda dala jata he. Ager cover Karen ge bache ki bhakti ko. Wo ghalti badi hojae go size me? Phir aese bache criminal act me Shamil hote hen.  Jis bache ke Walden ye realize na kare ke ghalti "ghalti" he, to wo bacha Kabhi bhi grow nahi kar sakta he. 

1 jumla likh le

Naa gawari ka Izhar Karna he.

Lafz kiya bola he

Naa gawari

Is me na maar hoti he, is me na kuttai hoti he, na mukka hota he. Naa gawari 1 ahsas hota he. Naa gawari 1 aspiration hota he, ager ahsas he seekhna he to naa gawar na jaiye ga, kahi mash'hoor naa gawar insan ban jae. 😃😃

Naa garawari ye he ke mehsoos karae ke yar ye munasib nahi he, ye gher munasib he. Yar ye theek nahi he. 

Apne bachon ko naa gawari se mehsoos karwae ke ye namunasib he. Khush gawari se ye mehsoos karwae ke ye theek he. Kuch cheezon ki khush gawari mehsoos karwani chahiye.  

Bacha bata Raha he ke baba ap ne parson pese diye the wo mene jamma kar ke kharch kar diye. Pehle sun le ke kaha kharch kiye hen? Bacha bolta he wo Behn ki birthday aa Raha he mene us ke liye Cheeze khareedi hen. Ab ap ne us ko shabasi deni he ya criticize Karna he.

Is lamhe me us ki poori nature ban rahi he.  Ke ap ne us ko kaha very good behno ke liye aesa Karna chahiye. 1 ye hota he. Or doosra yeke yar pese to mene ap ko diye the, ap khud kharch karte Behn ko to me khud he deta. Ap ne jese he kaha to bache ke mind me 1 data chala jata he. Perception gae he, ke ahsaas karne ki koi zaroorat nahi he. Ap Jo us se kawa ke encourage karte he wo aadet ban jati he. Burai ki shabasi badi burai ko peda kar detail he. Or achai ki shabasi badi achai ko peda kar deti he. 

Ap jin cheezon me bada Karna chahte he, jin aadeto me. Un ko shabasi me zaroor laaen. Un ko kahe very good ye badi achi bat he. Naya kiya padha he, Naya kiya seekha he.kon c nae cheeze seekhi he.

Bachon ko is tarh ki conscious assignment de, or bole ke yar me tujhe inaam don go. ye conscious assignment he is ko poori kar ke Lao.

Ap bachon ko experience Karna sikhae, or bole maaf Karna seekho. First time wo kare ga or bole ga papaa bada mushkil kam he. It is very difficult papa nahi di jati. Ap ne us ko itni bar maaf karwana sikhaya ke us ka maaf Karna us ki aadet me chaos Gaya. Jab us ki aadet me chala Gaya to us ki Zindagi badle gi, or us ko pata lage ga ke maaf Karna asaan he, q ke us me zor nahi Lagana pasta, q ke zor Lagana sha'oor ke pas he. 

Walden ka sab se bada ahsaan bachon per ye he ke achi aadten dena. 

Discipline, proactiveness

Ye bohat he mushkil se bachon me peda hota he kiya? Wo yeke uniform 1 din pehle se tayyar, shoes 1 din pehle se tayar, nashta us ki planning pehle se tayyar.

Is ka bada faida

Is ka sab se bada faida ye hota he ke subh uth ke Jo toofan peda hota he, wo toofan nahi machta. Aadten ap bachpan se de de, or tae Karen or aj se he bachon ki aadton ko dekhen ke kin aadton ke sath chal rahe hen. Aadten Abhi choti hen. Aadten waqt ke sath jawan ho jati he. Aadten mature hojati hen, aadten pukhta ho jati he, aadten nature ban jati he.

Aadten nature ban gae to hath se chali gae, hardcore me chali gae. Hardcore me chali gae to aesa banda grow nahi kar sakta, Kabhi aage nahi chal sakta, q ke aadten us ko dibo deti hen. Mera man'na ye he ke bande ki Zindagi ka sab se bada Dushman wo khud hi he. Bahar se Dushman na dekhe. Jitni bande ki aadten us ki Dushman hoti he, us ke nazriyat hote hen, sochen kitni manfi hoti he. Aadten insan ko ujjarr ke rakh deti hen.

Aadten kab badli ja sakti hen?

Ager sha'oori tor per dekhe. Farz Karen bands beth ker soche mujhe gusse ki aadet he, is ne mujhe kiya nuqsan diya he?