Bacho ki tareef kab or kese ki jae? | bache ki tareef in urdu

 Bacho ki tareef kab or kese ki jae? | cache ki tareef in urdu

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Bacho me khud aetmadi ki kami ki asal wajh1 ye he Walden ka ashi andaaz me un ki tareef na Karna he. Ye aage chal ker low confidence ka baais Banta he. 

Tareef kiya he?

Jab hm namaz padhte he. "Alhamdu lillahi rabbil aalmeen" or jb Quran padhte he. Us me bhi yehi padhte he. AlhamAlhamdu lillahi rabbil aalmeen" 

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Tamam tareef Allah he ke liye he.  Allah bhi tareef Chahta he. Wo Chahta he ke us ki makhlooq us ki tareef kare. Jab ke Allah ko tareef ki zaroorat nahi he. Allah jis se sab se ziyada Mohabbat karta he. Muhammad(sallao alehe wa'alihi Wa Sallam) us ki sb se ziyada tareef karta he Quran me. Phir Muhammad(Sallah alahi wa'alihi Wa Sallam) ne bhi poori Zindagi Allah he ki tareef ki he. 

Pata ye chala ke ham jis se Mohabbat karte he usi ki tareef karte he. Ham Allah se Mohabbat karte he, hm Allah ki tareef karte he. Ham hamare nabi se Mohabbat karte he, ham usi ki tareef karte he. 

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Ham apne bacho se bhi Mohabbat karte he lekin yaha tareef ka andaaz Thora change hota he. Bache ki jb tareef krni hoti he, to akele me us ki tareef karte he or jb dantna ho ya kisi bat per samjhana ho to sab ke samne ye kam hota he. Publically dantna hota he. Bacha bad tameezi karta he, to sh ke samne dant diya jata he. Jab koi acha kam kerta he to khule dil se sb ke samne us ki tareef nahi ki jati he.

1. Pehla usool

Bacho ki tareef ka sab se pehla usool ye he, ke bacho ke samne or logo ke samne bache ki tareef ki jae. Aesa nahi hona chaheye ke bacha waha mojood na ho or bacho ki tareef ki jae. Balke bacha waha mojood ho or us ki tareef kare or logo ke samne kahe ke mere bache me ye bohat he achi quality bohat he achi he. Q ke bacha jab publically apni tareef sunta he to us ka confidence build ho jata he. Otherwise, wo apne ap ko workless samjhne lagta he. Apni qadar nahi karta he. 

Ya 

wo apne ap ko 2sro se compare karne lagta he. Wo log is tarf he me is tarf hon. Us ke Baal boht ache he. Mere ball ache nahi he. Ye baten teenager bachiyo me boht ziyada hoti he. Is umar me wo apne ap ko apni dosto ke sath bohat compare krti hen. Yehi wajh he ke ham bachpan se apne bacho per kam nahi karte he. Unke self-confidence per kam nahi karte he.

2 usool tareef krne ka treeqa

2 usool tareef krne ka treeqa bacho ki tareef karne ka ye he ke kisi has behavior ko target krte hue us ki tareef ki jae. Jis kam ke liye targeted tareef ki jati he. Bacha us kam ke liye encourage hota he. Misaal ke tor per 1 din Walid ghar per aya or bache ko Dekha ke bacha parh Raha he, to bas dil he dil me khush hota he ke mere bacha parh Raha he. Apni zaban se kuch bhi nahi kaha.

 2sre din bhi Walid ghar per aya or Dekha ke Mera bacha parh Raha he, or dil he dil me khush hota he apni zaban se kuch bhi nahi kaha. 

3sre din bhi is tarh Hua.

4 din jab Walid ghar per aya to Dekha ke bacha Khel Raha he. Kuch Dekha nahi bas tanqeed Karna shoru ho gae, us samjhana share ker diya.  3 din jab bacha parh Raha tha us waqt us ki zaban nahi khula us waqt bache ki tareef nahi ki. 

Ham jo he Ulta karte hen tanqeed ko express karte hen or tareef ko chupate her bas dil he dil me khush ho rahe he. Ke bacha Sahi ja Raha he. Express kijiye apne ap ko ke bacha Sahi kar Raha he. 

3 usool

Bache per proud krna chaheye. Bache ko pata chalna chaheye ke mere maa baap mujh per proud krte he. Ager ap apne bache per proud nahi range to or koi nahi krega. Q ke is zaalim Dunya ke pas bhi itna waqt nahi ke wo ap ke bache per proud kare. 

Aj ager bachpan me us ki tareef nahi krege to Kal us ki performance per ager taliyaan bajao gi to tamasha kehlao gi. Q k jo bad me tali bajata he. Wo tamashai kehlata he.