Bacho ko discipline karne ke 8 tareeke
Ziyada ter parents ka ye bhi sawal hota he.
1. Hamare bache discipline me nahi hote he.
2. Ham hamare bachon ko responsible banana chahte hen. Ham chahte hen ke hamare bache happy bane. Ham chahte hen hamare bache life me successful bane.
Ham un 2no cheezon ko kese manage Karen.
Is blog me me ap ko batao gi ke wo kon c aesi ghalti he jis ko ham avoid kar le bachon ko well-disciplined bana sakte hen. Us ke sath wo kon c aesi 5 tips he jis ko ham follow kar ke apne bachon ko responsible, happy or successful bana sakte hen.
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3 parenting major mistakes
Hamare bache Hamari copy hen so jane anjane me ham se koi ghalti ho jati he, jis ke Karn he Hamara bacha Hamari bat nahi sunta. As parents hame sab se pehle ye jan'na zaroori he. Is ke ilawa no 2 wo 5 solution he jis ke bare me bhi ham bataen ge. Pehli mistake jo maa baap se hoti he.
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1. Suggepostions with fear
Is ka Matlab he ke parents bache ko kisi cheez ke bare me suggest karte hen or sath me bachon ko darate bhi he jese misal ke tor khana khale warna.... Brush kar le warna.... Hostel me daal de ge. Ye kar le nahi to aesa ho jae ga. Wo kar le nahi to wesa ho jae ga.
Wo dialogue to yad he hoga na.
Utna bhi na darao ke darr ka darr he khatam ho jae.
2. Multi-direction parenting
Aksar kar ke dekha jae to maa ki soch bache ke bare me alg hoti he. Baab ki soch bache ke bare me alg hoti he. Or donon he apne bache ki parwarish apni tarh karte he. Maa chahti he me jesa chahti hon mere bachon ki parwarish wesi ho. Isi tarh baap bhi aesa he chahta he.
Baap ki ye soch hoti he ke mujhe bachpan me ice cream khane ko nahi mili thi or mujhe jo luxury life nahi mili thi, me wo life apne bachon ko dena chahta hon. Jab ke maa ko ye lagta he ager mujhe mere bachon ka acha future dekhna he to bache ki discipline me rakhna hoga. Jo cheeze bacha mangta he ager me us ko de don to bacha biged jae ga.
3. Maa baap ka her bat me yes kehna
Maa baap ye sochte he ke hame bachpan me jo cheeze nahi mili thi to aj hamare pass ALLAH ka diya sab kuch he to ham q na wo cheez apne bachon ko den. Jab ap bache ko sari ki sari cheeze struggles Bina de dete hen to us cheez ki value khatam ho jati he. Ap mane na mane us cheez ko dene wale maa baap ki value bhp khatm ho jati he. Phir Bache samajhta he ke un sari cheezon per mera haq he. Us ke bad wo bohat demanding ho jata he. Aahista aahista bacha biged jata he.
Ab me ap ko wo 5 tips batao gi, jis ka zikar mene Pehle ap se kiya tha.
1. Positive suggestion
Ap aj se apne ap se ye commitment kare ke aj se positive suggestion den ge. Is tarh nahi kehna ke beta khana kha le warna police pakd ker lejae gi. Balke is tarh kehna he ke beta ager tum khana khao ge to ap ke jism me taqat aae gi. Ager ap padho ge to ap ka future bright hoga. Ager ap padho ge to ap ka doctor ban'ne ka khuwab pura hoga. Jab bhi ap bache se bat karte he to sab se pehle us bat ko ap dil me dohrae, phir soche ke ye bat positive he ya negative he. Is tarh ap 2 din 4 din aesa karte karte lagatar 21 din aesa ap Karo ge to ap ki ye habit ban jae gi. Phir bacha bhi ap ki bat mane ga. Happy hoga successful hoga.
2. Stories sunana
Jo bhi bat ap bache ko samjhana Chah rahe he to wo normal advise ke tor ma honi chahiye balke story ke tor per ap bache ko samjhaen.
1 bar ein enstien se kisi ne poocha ke ham apne bachon ko genius banana chahte he to hame genius hone ka Raaz bataen q ke ap genius hone. To ein enstine ne kaha ke bachon ko Kahani sunaen. Shayed us shakhs ne wo bat samjh nahi wo bola ke or ziyada genius banana ho to kiya kare. Ein enstin bole orr ziyadaa Kahani sunaen.
3. Power of teamwork
As a mother or as a father ap ka kam he bache ki achi parwarish Karna. Na ke khud ka sahi ban'na. Pehle aesa hota tha ke baap dhiyan nahi deta tha to chalta tha lekin ab aesa nahi hota he. Ab maa or baap donon ko mil ker teamwork me kam Karna padega. Kabhi Kabhi aesa hota he ke maa apne bachon ki padhai ko lekar bohat paresha hoti he or padhai ke silsle me wo apne bachon per sakhti bhi karti he. Jab ke us bare me baap kuch narmi karta he, to bache ke samne to taddakh se bat na kare balke akele me apni bivi ko samjhae ke ap ne bohat sakhti ki thi ap ko narmi karni chahiye. Jitna ap team me rahe ge bachon ki parwrish utni achi hogi.
4. Jaddu ki jhppi
Ager ap bache ke liye kuch Karna chahte he to ap Roz subh me ya rat me bache ko jaddu ki jhapki de. Jis waqt bhi bacha gussa karta he, ap bajae is ke ap bhi gussa kare ap bache ke samne ghutnon ke bal beth Jaen, or bache ko jaddu ki jhappi de, or smile ke sath de to guaranty ke sath kehti hon ap ka bacha gussa Karna chod de ga or bacha ap ki bat mane ga bacha discipline me rahe ga.
5. Accept & enjoy the childhood
Bache ke bachpane ko accept kare. Bache ke sath bachon jesa behave Karna chaheye. Bachon ke sath us ki man pasand game khele. Jab ap bache ke pas jae to ap ko lage ke ap ka bachpan loat aya he. Jab ap bache ke sath us ki man pasand game khele ge. Aesa ap lagatar 20 se 25 din tak karenge, to me ap ko guarantee ke sath kehti ho phir bacha ap ki bat mane ga or bacha discipline me hoga.
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