Ziddi bachon ko kese samjhaen | apne bachon ki tarbiyat karne ke 4 steps | stubborn kids
1. Bache ko ignore kare
2. Har bat me na Karna
3. Bachon ko bhook Lagna
4. Neend ka aana
Bohat se maa baap apne bachon ki aadet se pareshan rehte hen.
Sawal ye ye peda hota he ke wo aadet kiya he?
Jawab ye he ke bachon ki tarf se hamesha maa baap ko bachon ki zid karne ki aadet maa baap ko pareshan karti he.
Us soorte hall me maa baap ka kehna hota he ke jab bache zid karte hen to bohat ziyada zid karte hen, us waqt wo bohat zor zor se cheekhte hen, chillate he, bohat zor zor se rote hen.
Aesi soorte hall me parents ka 1 he sawal hota he, ham aesa kiya kare jis se bache ki zid karne ki aadet kam ho jae.
Dekhiye
Dekhiye jab bache bohat ziyada zid karte hen, or bache bohat ziyada cheekh rahe hote hen, chilla rahe hote he. Us waqt maa baap ko ye lagta he ke jab bacha cheekh Raha he to ham bhi bachon per cheekhte he chillate hen to is se bache ki ye aadet dab jae gi ya kam ho jae gi.
Aesa nahi hota
Ager ham zid karte bache per cheekhte hen chillate hen, to bacha or ziyada zid karta he.
Is ka Matlab 1 bat to saaf he
Us waqt bache ko Kabhi nahi dantna jab bacha zid kar Raha hota he. Ager bacha or bhi ziyada zid kar Raha he, to parents ko 1 kam Karna chahiye.
1. Bache ko ignore kare
Bache ko dekhna he nahi he, kisi or kam me lag jana he, aese me ho sakta he bacha thodi der or cheekhe ga, chillae ga, lekin thodi der bad wo khud dekhe ga ke meri bat ko koi nahi sun Raha wo apne ap he chup hojae ga ignore Karna he. Us soorat per bache per cheekhna nahi he chillana nahi he ap ne.
Hame jan'ne ki zaroorat he
Hame jan'ne ki zaroorat he bacha bohat ziyada zid q karta he. Mene pehle bhi is bat ka zikar kiya tha. Aj phir us bat ka zikar karongi.
2. Har bat me na Karna
Ham maa baap har bat me na karte he, bacha kehta he, mamma me ye kam Karo, ham maa baap kehte "NAHI" Phir bacha kehta he me wo kam Karo "NAHI" bacha kehta he me ye khana chahta hon "NAHI" bacha kehta he me yahan beth jaon "NAHI" har bat me NAHI, NAHI, NAHI
Jab itni bar bacha NaHI sunta he, to wo Pareshan hojata he or phir wo zid Karna shuroo kar deta he. Or zid karne pe aajata he arre ap to mujhe har bat me mana kar dete ho ab me ap ki bat nahi sunoo ga, ab me apni bat chalao ga.
Isi liye bacho ko ziyada na nahi kahiye. Ager bache ko na keh diya he to us per atal rahiye. Us bat se hille nahi. Bache ki zid wali bat per na keh ker han na kahiye.
3. Bachon ko bhook Lagna
Kae bar aesa bhi hota he, bache ko bhook lagi Hui hoti he, unhon ne kafi der se khana nahi khaya hota he, tab bhi bache bohat ziyada zid karte hen. Bhooke pet bache bohat ziyada zid karte hen. To hamesha is bat ka khayal rakhna chahiye ke bache ka pet hamesha bhara hona chahiye, thodi thodi der ke bad bache ko khane ko mil Raha hota he. Thodi thodi der bad bacha kuch kha Raha he. Kae bar to hame lagta he hamare bache bohat ziyada zid karte hen, bohat ziyada cheekhte hen, chillate hen.
Wajh ye hi hoti he
Wajh ye hi hoti he ke bohat der se bache ne kuch khaya nahi hota he, or bache ko bhook lagi hoti he, or hame pata bhi nahi chalta he.
4. Neend ka aana
Bohat bar aesa bhi hota he, ke bache ro rahe hote he q ke unhe neend aarahi hoti he. Neend na karne ki wajh se bache me chidchidapan peda hota he. To hamesha is bat ka khayal rakha jae ke bache ko achi neend mile or lambi neend mile. Or bache dopahar ko bhi zaroor soen. Q ke jo bache rat ko bhi lambi neend lete hen, or dopahar ko bhi sote he, wo bache kam chidchide hote hen.
Subh 6:30 a.m baje ya 7:00 a.m baje uthna
Ager bache Subh 6:30 a.m baje ya 7:00 a.m baje uthte hen, to chahiye ke rat ko jalldi soen. Rat ko apne kamre ki light jalldi band karni hogi, taake bache ko jalldi neend aae, ager ap bache ko rat 11:00 ya 12:00 baje light band kar rahe hen. To Subha 7:00 baje utha rahe he, to bacha zid karne lage ga. Bacha chidchida ho jae ga. School me bhi or ghar me bhi.
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